So, for my newest weirder side of the topics that has popped into my head concerns lolis who lives in bigger citys and some that lives in the 'not so suburban neighborhoods'.
I have been in and out of different cities and places and thankfully now we've moved to a different community but before, we use to live in a, I guess not very family oriented neighborhood where your always alert for gunshots and whatnot. Typical in the older neighborhoods i've been to and honestly, they werent that bad. But I certainly would not be walking around in Lolita clothing there.
So I guess my question is, for fellow lolis that do still reside in those parts of the county, how do you deal with it? I was never one to shy away from my fashion, I usually wear what I feel like without shame or anything as I feel its a freedom of expression. But I've always been concerned whenever I go back to visit old friends not to be so carefree as to wear a frilly dress in public.
So yes, how does other lolis deal with it?