I think I'm too old for Lolita.
I'm almost twenty four. I have a three and a half year old daughter. I got pregnant with her when I was nineteen... The years passed, I concentrated on being a mother, my sense of identity and fashion fell to the side. I realize now that I still wear Hello Kitty t-shirts and knee high stripped socks (for example), same stuff I wore when I was nineteen, appropriate then but not now.
I've found Lolita fashion now. I adore it. All I would need for a lolita wardrobe would be the petticoats and skirts.
But I'm starting to think that I'm too old. Maybe not too old in the sense of age. But I'm 23 with a child.
I guess my question is... Can someone who dresses in Lolita fashion be a mother? I have it in my head for some reason that I have to dress and act my age now, cause I'm a mother.
(and oh my I hope this post is alright for this community.)