I have a really huge hair bow from Metamorphose, and I think it looks kind of dumb on me with my hair down, or even in pigtails. I think maybe my hair should be really huge and fluffy to balance out the height? Or would that look stupid? How could I manage to get my pigtails fluffy without having them look bad or unkempt? Sorry, I've been having really low self esteem lately. :( Do you have any suggestions for that, too?