Is there a way to incorporate lolita into your normal everyday life? Well, silly question, I know, but I'm drawing up blanks. Does anyone have some suggestions? I don't want my family to flip like when I walked out in tripp pants and band tee shirt rocking thick eyeliner. Haha. Dad wasn't so thrown off, just upset about the makeup choice. However, I was hoping to give them some warning as to the change. I've long since settled into my fashion preferences, (haha I can't say I have any sense or style in fashion)but I tend to stay away from skirts and dresses. I'm afraid my dad will be disapproving; so I want to smooth the transition.