In light of the fact that the admin of the LoliGoth Database, talia_speaks
is creating a Lolita blog, I feel that it is logical to bring up my concerns.
It has become clear to me that the database is no longer a place that can be considered truthful. This is based on my experience, and I would like to hope that I am the only one being targeted with this, but that seems unlikely.
To summerize, I left negative feedback in the database, and she responded a few weeks later that she was removing it based on some information that she had received from the other party. I offered to alter my feedback to reflect this, but was denied, even though my terms of sale clearly stated that bad feedback would be left in this sort of situation. I checked the database at that time and found 2 pieces of feedback that seemed suspicious (one that was feedback based on not liking the product received, one that had false information in it) and reported them to her. She said that she would look over them. This was approximately 2 months ago. After a month I sent her an e-mail asking about the status, and was not responded to. During that time she has posted on several communities and is now talking about starting a Lolita blog. Since she has time to do all of these things, I would assume that she has the time to check on things in the database.
I would like to see what other people think about this, and if other people have had negative experiences.
EDIT: Well, apparently I'm the only one who has an issue with the database, so I fold. Say what you will.
I guess my major concern is the communication issue. If talia had let me know what was going on, we wouldn't have this problem. Even if she was taking care of issues and contacting people, if she doesn't reply to me and let me know what is going on, I feel like I am being ignored.
I accept that I am not a perfect person, and I don't even really want the feedback removed; if I deserve it, so be it. But I would like to be informed about these things when I have contacted the admin. This is not just about the feedback for me, but feedback that I left that was removed.
Perhaps I jumped the gun in making this post, and for that I apologize. I am not in the best place right now, and should have known better. It was stupid on my part. I would delete the post, but that would look sketchy, so I'll leave it here with my apology.