I have a question.
I think of my self as a full lolita in mind...but I have no actual dresses yet.
Getting the dresses are very difficult for me, because my dad think lolita is something inapropriate, related to child abuse and sexuality.
He has read the original Lolita novel, and the fact that there has been a news report that said some girl in highschool who dresses gothloli murdered this other girl had not helped at all.
So I was wondering, if anyone has any ideas how to convince my dad that lolita as a fashion is nothing related to sex or the original novel? Something logical...my dad is a very logical=_= person and he is hard to convince.
I thank you in advance~
Does anyone knows what's going on now concerning lolitasnap? It says "Lolitasnap will be up in 2 weeks." since more than 2 weeks now^^
I was just wondering, specially because I'm curious about what and how it changed now.
Wow. It's been so long since I've posted here.
I'm in desperate need of new skirts and I've exhausted all my options at the mall (that I know of .. I work there, so I'm always checking around in two or three *possible* stores). Has anyone noticed any interesting skirts in any stores recently? I'm finding it all but impossible to find a longer skirt around here. Everything's a mini or a pleated-mini or mid-calf length.
No shortage of cute baby doll tees for my casual look I'm happy to report. Lots of cute screen tees and such.
But the skirts are my priority. I'm probably going to be hunting for JSKs in the near future as well. I hear they're indispensable in a loli wardrobe. X3 I'm so behind. Money's been tight for awhile. Now I can spend somewhat freely. XD
And ohgod shoes. I'm gonna be on a shoe spree in a moment. I have big feet though. >_>;
Any help = greatly appreciated. You have no idea.
Lolis in Michigan, if you wouldnt mind telling me your locations I am willing to suggest and host lots of get togethers.
I was wondering if there were going to be anyone attending I-Con at stonybook university in NY this March?
I will be coming to Seattle in a couple of weeks and would like to connect with other Lolitas (while I am in town visiting frineds)
PLEASE do feel free to email me (directly) if you would like to connect in person
(would love to hear from you over the next few days so we can better arrange)
by emailing me at
and please DO put seattle lolita in the subject line so I can spot your messege
look forward to seeing you
There was a post a week or so back from the organizer of the Valentines Day lolita card and/or accessory swap. The organizer told us to wait until Wednesday to email them about the lack of a gift. :O
Just a reminder to those that didn't recieved anything.
I emailed. xD;
There are some lovely loli hair combs out there, but however stupid this may sound..I have no idea how to wear them with out them falling out and messing up my hair. Does anyone have any pictures or links to places that give directions?