Edit: Thank you all for your lovely suggestions and comments, you're all so sweet! I promise I'm not changing my style do to pressure to look older, I honestly just wasn't a fan of the way I looked in a lot of the ultra-sweet prints (and I'm an AP girl, so a lot of the prints I have are some of the REALLY sweet ones, haha). And I also just want to specify, just in case, I hope I didn't make any older lolitas feel bad by this post. Because I'm also a VERY firm believer that lolita doesn't have an age, and you should dress in what makes you happy! And you guys are rocking your sweet lolita, I've just grown out of it a bit, personaly!
That being said, thank you all for your wonderful tips, after reading a lot of this and searching around more, I found out that Otome is more the style I'm wanting to lean toward now! I had no idea what it is, but it's exactly what I'm looking for! So thank you all so much for helping me figure that out! You guys are wonderful <333