The theme is navy and winter (yay southern hemisphere), and I'm thinking of wearing a coord I wore to a convention a few weeks ago.
Since it's both navy and made of a pretty heavy velvet-y fabric I reckon the body of the coord will be an ok choice, but I'm wondering about what to wear as headgear.
To fit the winter theme better, I was thinking of wearing a navy flowercrown along with an antler-ears headband, like this.
I'm unsure about this, though, because I have heard talk that animal-ears are pretty ita-ish and lame, and also that the deer thing is kinda passé. I normally wouldn't be so nitpicky and would just wear the damn antlers because tbh I love deer motifs, but this is my very first meetup, and it's with a pretty big comm so I want to make a good impression. I'm so new to lolita and I am still just in highschool but I want to make it clear that I really care about the fashion all the same.
So what do you guys think? Should I wear the antlers, or just go with the crown I wore to the convention? Also if you have any ideas about the coord itself I'd love to hear it, I'd hate to think I was making some big mistake everyone thought was too obvious to comment on or something!