Basically I have the Pure Lady op, minus the little pink ribbon belt, and a pixie length hair-cut.
I looked and agonized over what sort of head-wear would look best with it, because I couldn't find any pictures of it on an actual person, much less a full outfit. On top of that, I don't want to show up the bride, so whatever I am wearing will have to be understated as well as well-coordinated.
I'm also in the process of starting on the second dress for the day after, and I'm having a similar problem: A distinct lack of headwear.

What would you ladies and gents recommend? I can't go charging out of the starting gate with this. I want to keep it subtle, but still look put-together and composed. Thank you for your input ahead of time!