Opinions about short hair in lolita?

      at least two or three months ago, i got my hair cut short. i hated it, but that's another story. basically, i need to know how we feel about short hair in lolita. it's grown out considerably since then, but i still don't feel confident enough, especially since my favorite style is sweet. i feel like i could only pull off kodona, and i don't want to because i prefer looking feminine...

  i know i can use wigs and there are ways i could style it - hairbows and decor, bonnets, etc. there's already been a topic on that, but i'm not interested in it. i just want to know how most lolitas feel about short hair in general.

  if it's too similar, feel free to delete this.

  it's just a matter of self-confidence, i guess - i really don't want to be made fun of. :c