I have no idea how this will be taken, but since this is EGL's last day before temp closure, I don't have much time to think about it.
I am a fairly active member in the lolita community. This is a brand new account for the purposes of the comm I've made, and I will not be giving out my active LJ name or real name.
"I came up with the idea for this comm whilst reading back posts of
Lolita Secrets. L_S has become a hostile place to ask for advice, and
yet many users do, purely because they have nowhere else to turn. And so
this comm was born.
I understand you will be wondering, Why would I trust this user with my personal thoughts or problems?
The answer is, because I'm a stranger. Like anyone else, I've had a lot of
experience with everything from mental and physical abuse to silly
vendettas over the internet. The difference between coming to me and
going to a friend or family member is simply this: I am unbiased. I will
not sugar coat my responses. It's my aim to help you and give you
advice you can use, not give you a hug and tell you everything is going
to be alright."
The questions submitted do NOT have to be related to clothing. They can be related to absolutely anything, the same way some people have posted unrelated problems for analysis on Secrets. Your post will then be read through by myself (there are no other mods, and I am 99% sure there never will be after the fiasco we've witnessed here. I will not give out sensitive information about anyone to someone I don't know.) and will be posted in the comm with my response, thoughts and advice. That post will be open to unscreened comments from anyone who wishes to add their opinion; because no one is perfect, and someone else might have a better idea for you than me.
Details on how to submit can be found at the link below.
ALL names are held back (if they are given at all), IP logging will always be off. I'm not interested in drama.