Cosplay Lolita?

Yesterday I created a Facebook album tilted "Lolita". When I checked on it later that day, a friend commented asking if I meant Cosplay Lolita. I replied no and told her where I bought my dresses (There's only two for now). She hasn't responded back, but I'm feeling a bit self-conscious now. She's been a lolita much longer than I have, so I'm wondering if the dresses look like cosplay more than actual lolita fashion. 

This I my very first lolita dress.... And it's from Milanoo *GASP*!!! This was before I saw and heard all the Gawd awful reviews. Except for the ribbon detail (which I'll fix up myself), it's not really bad. 





And this one is from Bodyline. I find myself more into the Wa-Lolita style more than any other.







I really wasn't ready to upload anything here yet. I wanted to have everything perfect (hair/wig, makeup, stockings, etc.), However my mom wanted to take pics as soon as I said thank you to the mail carrier, but I digress.

Anyway, does this look like cosplay lolita to you? If so, any advice on how to make it look less like it.