If you're interested, I've started a new lolita blog - the focus is on what it's like being an ordinary human being in a fashion full of unachievable ideals, and how to learn to love yourself and the fashion regardless. I hope it will be helpful and inspiring to people!
http://thehumanlolita.blogspot.com/
I'm still in the process of organising the layout and so on, but I'll be updating at least once a week.
Hope you're all having a lovely Halloween!