First question: How does one decide a "right" style for Lolita for them? Like...Angelic/Pretty, Elegant/Aristrocrat Country/Etc...?
Second question: Whenever I bring up Lolita to my mom, she always says something about not wanting me to look like a child/try to get a boys attention/or she makes reference to Nobokov's (however his name is spelt >> I'm tired) book even though I always remind her that that's not what it is and showed her dresses/skirts and pictures of Lolita, she says they're "cute" but yet again she goes back to what she previously thought. I already own one Lolita dress (I pestered her enough + my dad agreed with me...aaand I'm rambling) but ANYWAYS I need to stop rambling, how do I convince her Lolita isn't what she thinks its meant for? ("You already look like you're twelve, I don't want you looking like you're ten.")
Eh...sorry if this isn't allowed...ha ^^;