I was just wondering if anyone had any experience showing up for family events (Christmas, Thanksgiving, Birthdays) in Lolita. I know my sister and my parents have heard me talk about it, but that's different than showing up all fluffy and cute. We're planning a big surprise party because my mother is retiring--she doesn't even know my sister and I will be there--and I wanted to know people's thoughts on the matter. I was probably going to wear this beautiful OP made out of this lovely toile; I was going to leave the pink ostrich plume hair piece at home so as not to over do it. I have a classic outfit as well, but really, that's not as fun, or fancy, as my rococo OP. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.