Well, as many of us are, I am not lolita 100% of the time. More like....50%. The other half is spent wanting o be a burlesque dancer.(Weird? Yes. I care what you think? No.) So, a good pair of shoes is where I need to start. So looking around at shops and I find this.
http://www.pleaserusa.com/ProductDetail.asp?div=&dpt=&ctg=&STYLE_CD=CONTESSA%2D58&PROD_CD=CONT58%2FBP%2FPU
So have fun with the shoes!