I found a lolita blog on LJ a while back, but I lost the link! I thought the blog was really cute and informative. I think there was a mascot of a girl drinking tea? At a computer perhaps?
The blog had several essays on lolita fashion, but I only remember two. One was on wearing unconventional shoes in lolita, and the other was about balancing color in your coordinates. Those posts contained these images:
I searched around but I haven't found anything. Any help would be really appreciated!