Most - When I say "most," you can quantify that as over 75%.
Lolita / Lolita outfit - an outfit / item / coordinate you are willing to post on daily_lolita or egl ..not lolita inspired.
Socks- Any type of socks. This includes pantyhose, tights, anklets, stockings, thigh-highs, etc.
Blouses / No Blouse - Means blouse only, does not include boleros, jackets, cardigans that you wear OVER your jsk.
Blouses are essential with most JSKs.
Socks are essential with most lolita outfits.
Any makeup is essential if you are wearing a lolita outfit
Cat ears, bunny ears, any other type of animal ears with lolita is a no-no
Carrying BJD's, dolls, and plushies is not lolita
Glasses with lolita is a no-no; people should get contacts instead
If someone is not under 5'5" tall, that person should not wear lolita.
If someone is not Asian, that person should not wear lolita.
If someone does not fit into Brand dresses, that person should not wear lolita
If someone is a cosplayer, they should not attempt lolita