I'm being serious.
My grandfather's funeral is on Thursday and he really liked my Lolita outfits. He often asked about the fashion.
We want to wear the traditional black clothes and I feel better when I'm wearing Lolita. It is not going to be OTT (I really don't have OTT things).
Has anyone done that? Has this been asked before?
EDIT: Thank you for your responses!. I've asked my mother and she says it's completely alright. Half my wardrobe is black anyway and I will definitely keep it very simple.