This is my first time purchasing with Taobao and I'm rather confused. My friend introduced me to Bhinder and I'm regretting not using it! The thing is do i have to wait for the seller to get my item in their possesion before they ship it to me? Or do they already have it and i am awaiting for the seller to say they shipped it and they are just very very slow (almost a week slow ^^") The site says my payment is complete so I guess I am just waiting? Please help!