We all have our own opinions. I've heard sweet style is the last thing people want to see a dark girl wearing. I personally think that blond hair can be a bit much on a dark girl unless she knows how to pull it off but other than that I see no problems. I'm in the process of becoming a full time lolita and I'm wondering what other lolitas will think of me.
The colors I primarily wear are: lavender, mint, green, sax, black and white. Occasionally pink. My dream style is hime. Right now I don't have a particular style.